SiQC :-P

Ok, am curious. Do my sister sluts (yes, we are reclaiming and redefining that term here from a feminist perspective :-D just to be clear) or y'all my sisters -- slut or not, or slut in the past, or slut wanna-be - really want:

1) just sex?? what does just sex mean? :-) feel free to elaborate as long as you wish
2) or happy sex with people who like you? ...hmmm.... if so, does that mean you want to have sex with friends? that you would prefer that your lovers are your good friends? :-)
3) if so again, does that actually mean that you would want to have various multi-colored relationships wherein you have sex within some of these relationships? meaning relationships that don't fall into the formulaic middle of the road committed coupledom? and not just one at a time? but possibly more than one such relationship at the same time?
3) and if so, does this actually mean that you want sex and friendship or maybe it's actually friendship with sex. so in that case, sex might not be the more accurate or the right takeoff point. but maybe friendship should be the takeoff point and sex the bonus?
4) or maybe, you really just want sex, and following your lust?!?

hmmm i dunno but i'd love to know what you're thinking. this is because am not convinced some of you really just want sex (hahahaha) even as I do agree that you would love lots of sex (don't we all :-P) ... but maybe that you're trying to launch the desire for sex and friendship from the sex airport alone... i don't know anything at all. do tell me :-D. i think this will be fun!

so here's the deal, if you wanna talk, i can transfer this discussion to another blog (where you need not be bothered by viola sighing and chuckling over her inner life that only she half-understands). but for a start, you can comment (anonymously if you want) and if the ball starts rolling very fast, we'll move and move quickly!

everyone is welcome to state their feelings/ theories/ experiences/ whateva. we could also do this over real live coffee but think of our poor sisters stuck abroad, away from the wonders of C3 (hahaha) and Muscovado Grill.

loveya, :-D