sudden thought: did he ever ask me what i wanted in all the major decision-making and other things that happened?

did i? sometimes, i did.

oh dear. what if he never asked me what i wanted? asked in the sense that he wanted to know because what i would say would have to be part of his considerations?

shit. communication probably really does help a lot especially when it's authentic.

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sorry for the preoccupation. will post of fun things when we've successfully pulled it off. almost, but not quite yet. ;)