inimbento: konsepto

made up this concept on-the-spot in a text conversation with gf. said i, i believe in "constructive access to information." hehe! it simply means, personally, i don't need to know everything, but i need to know enough. and i try to practice this in my relations with others in my bid to gain karat points in the Confucian after-world (read: the golden rule, hehe!).

luckily, when i recognize what it is i truly feel and know what i want to do, the right opportunity, and the appropriate and accurate turn-of-phrase usually just present themselves, without too much planning :) synchronistically-speaking, the how and when come up, and i take those up.

it's just that it's important to me to know enough to be able to make my choices and considerations. to be able to pick my risks myself, and take responsibility for them. (mom and i were talking about this last week, about how some men will consider and make decisions by themselves or amongst themselves on matters that also very much concern the significant women in their lives. and how they would be so much more helpful if they also ask the women what the women want to do, given the situation, so the women can state their own preferences, make their choices, and take responsibility for these themselves.)

so i try not to keep my significant people in the dark about things on which they might need to make their own considerations about.

and it is very important to me personally, that all this sharing of information is done in the right way, using the right words which are the proof of a loving motivation. i can tell when other people or myself for that matter are sharing stuff only to appease their/ my ego or hurt others. then i want to kick them... myself! hehe. or conversely, when people are not sharing information in order to have the upperhand/ hurt others/ appease their egos.

for instance it is very clear to me that when i tell others that i feel that i am feeling very pretty today, that it is because i am feeling good, and wanting more attention. :P lol.

and eerily, my horoscope agrees with me again.

Making things clear
Valid during several weeks: During this time you may be inclined to keep your opinions to yourself and not communicate them to others, even when you should. At the same time you may be more in touch with the hidden sides of your own personality, your unconscious drives and compulsions than at most other times. The first of these two effects may be undesirable or inappropriate, but the ability to get at hidden areas of your character can be quite useful. The problem here is that you may feel that others will hold anything you say against you. And this may be true, especially if your words are motivated by petty ego concerns. But it is even more likely that what you don't say will be held against you, so it is very important at this time to say everything that has to be said.


The interpretation above is for your transit selected for today:
Mercury in the 12th House 12 exact at 23:44
activity period from 23 January 2006 to 10 February 2006.


Horoscopes!